29歲你還能當條魯蛇,但30歲開始該學著存錢…過來人給30歲世代的7條人生建議

可曾想過30歲後,人生需要做什麼轉變?(示意圖取自youtube)

有人說,在世界上發光發熱的人,35歲前都已掌握住了某些「訣竅」。而這些訣竅卻是30歲以前就開始累積的。暢銷書《傳說中的一流員工》、《30歲前,決定未來收入的90%》的作者土井英司說,30歲可稱為「最初也是最後的一年」,人生的分水嶺,淬鍊自我非要在30歲前完成。你怎麼想自己的30歲?看看前輩忠告前,先想想這些字用英文怎麼表達。 

a)鴻鵠之志

b)牽就

c)拖延

Your 30s are typically a time of settling down. The following is some wise advice from those who have already experienced their 30s.

到了30歲是該安定下來的時候。以下幾位已經歷30歲這個階段,提供他們自身的一些忠告。

1.They spend time with people who add value to their lives.他們和能讓生命增值的人相處。

Stop spending time with those who don’t treat you well, and instead spend more time with loved ones. “Don’t just work. Make memories. The older you get, the harder it is to make meaningful relationships,” writes Microsoft product designer Michael Bach.

不要再和不能善待你的人相處,而應花更多時間和所愛的人在一起。微軟產品設計師Michael Bach表示:「不要一味工作,而要創造回憶。年齡愈大,則愈難培養有深度的情誼。」

2.They pursue their a) loftier aspirations他們追求更崇高的志向。

Twenty-something often b) settle for a job they are not passionate about. Before they know it, a temporary job becomes a career. While it’s certainly more difficult to switch industries in your 30s, it’s not impossible and may be the right choice.

20歲的人往往牽就一份他們不熱愛的工作。當他們意識到時,一份臨時的工作已經變成了事業。雖然30歲時想要轉行很困難,但並非不可能,而且可能會是正確的抉擇。

3.They don’t obsess about the future.他們不擔心未來。 (相關報導: 飛出國吧!打開耳朵和嘴巴,這些城市適合來場「想說就說」的英文學習之旅 更多文章

Author Mark Manson realized in his 20s that there is not a magical moment where you start feeling like an adult who has it all figured out. You cannot even anticipate your life 5 years into the future.